Your best friends will always be the ones who stand by you when you get scolded by your parents, or their parents or whosoever's parents that might be. Best friends are the biggest blessing in life. They are the only ones you choose for yourself, as everything else is pre-decided for you, even your spouse. Kyunki jodiyan toh upar wala bana ke bhejta hai...right?
Before you plan to spend some quality time with your boyfriend and sideline your best friend, here is something you must read. It will surely tell you why it is always important to have best friends more than your boyfriend.
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You had a fight, you need them, or have a secret- your best friends have a special antenna that tells them things even before you actually say it to them. Your boyfriend might not even understand the same things that are repeatedly told to him.
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Need a haircut, behind in your payments, or just say having bad day- only best friends can bring you out of that pool of mess. So, why at all would you need an organiser? Your boyfriend is quite capable of making you forget things… right!
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Your best friends love you the way you are. You can be your shabby best with them, or sing at the top of your freakish voice. On your bad eyebrow day you can meet your buddies, but not your boyfriend, can you?
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Your best friends will always give you an unbiased opinion, but your boyfriend’s opinion will always be predisposed and subjective.
Be it your cousin’s birthday party, salon visit, shopping trip, or just to gorge on golgappas, your best friends will fit quite rightly everywhere. As there can be quite a places, where you boyfriend may not be able/like to accompany you.
Remember, the time you guys tortured that ‘khadoos uncle/aunty’ by running away after constantly pushing their door bell? Your friends have been probably with you in almost all your best memories. Unlike your boyfriend, who will always raise an eyebrow to the crazy things you guys did and laugh on it even now.
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You guys practically invented this secret lingo for your private talks, something which only you all can understand and interpret. Talk about being lovey-dovey, and you probably might give a scare to your boyfriend as they find this idea useless.
Unlike your boyfriend, your best friend can be a part of your family functions, events and you do not have to lie about having invited them. With boyfriends, you play a lot of hush-hush games when you have your parents, aunties and uncles around.
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Unlike your courtship, the relationship with your best friends does not require oodles of planning and scheduling. Just type in a quick WhatsApp ‘Hey’, and they will be there with you in no time. You can simply pack your bags for a last minute crazy vacation with your best friend without worrying about anything in the world.
Isn’t that that the sole fun of being with your best friends? You ask them to do anything, and you would never hear a ‘no’ from them. Be it charging at the rival gang, or hanging around at the sutta galli, or late-night long drives, or eating at a roadside dhaba, they will always back you up. No matter how tough life gets, your best friend will always have a window open for you.
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With your best friends, there are no commitment phobias you need to live up to. You are never stuck up in discussions like where the relationship is headed. No, you do not need to have the ‘TALK’ with them!
No, this one is not to offend anybody. A boyfriend might someday walk out of your life, but the exit door for a best friend is locked and the key is lost.
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Okay, your best friends might get a bit envious of your new boyfriend, but they will not get suspicious about your relationships. They would not go secretly behind your back to read your messages to your boyfriend. Unless of course, you leave the phone unlocked for them to sneak around, only to be mocked later on.
With your best friend, you do not need to tame your words and think before you speak. You can be what you are inside out. And you can be as crazy as you want, even in your A-rated talks!
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A fight among best friends does not put a knot in your friendship. You can fight endlessly over nothing at all, and everything will be fine before you even realise you had a fight. There are no cold wars among best friends, and nobody has the patience to wait for the other to break the ice.
You get your space when you want and you do not even have to ask for it. Your best friend exactly knows when to disappear, leaving you on your own, and when to get under your skin, no matter how much you plead to be left alone.
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There is never a discussion about who will pay the bill, because you know they will take care of your share!
Your best friends are the only honest people after your mom, who will tell you that your haircut looks terrible. Your boyfriend will never say it, though you might be able to make out from his gestures later. But, your best friends will straight away tell you to come to the salon with them, and do whatever damage control that can be done.
Taking selfies can be a hell lot cooler and certainly more fun with your best friends than with a boyfriend. Even a selfie or two with them might remain special in your collectin that will make you laugh your ass out while going through them even years later.
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We bet after reading this, you are surely going to call up your buddies, and spend some time revisiting the memories you guys had. So, we hope you have a gala time with your best friends.
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