Marriage is the start of a new phase of life. It's not just the union of two people but that of two families. The courtship period is most important, not only for you and your partner, but also for your relationship to blossom with your new family members, especially your future mother-in-law. She is the woman you need to have the best relationship with. She has raised her son with love and care, pampered him to bits and would not want to share his love with anyone lese, even his wife.
A possessive mother-in-law might not accept the fact that her son loves someone else more than her. This feeling itself might make her not like her daughter-in-law much. And if this happens, then your relationship with your future family is in rocky terrain. Here we have a list of some signs you can look out for, to ascertain whether your to-be mother-in-law really dislikes you. They might help you get over the sourness of your relationship with her, before you get married!
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Well, every mother knows her son, but there are some who might always feel the need of letting others know about it. Whenever you plan something for your future husband, a surprise outing, a unique coloured shirt, or you plan to change something in your bedroom, if your future mother-in-law keeps on telling you something like, “I know my son. He won't like it.” get the hint. Your would-be MIL is not very fond of you.
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If she compares you with someone else's daughter-in-law or her own daughter, maybe, then you should understand that your relationship with her is in trouble. She would definitely tell you how good her best friend's daughter-in-law is, or how good she was as a daughter-in-law when she got married. She might even tell you to lose weight or go on a diet, or something else that might hurt you.
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Whatever you do does not matter to her and she always tells you that she would have done it better than you. Her expectations are out of your reach sometimes. And, however much you try to impress her, she just doesn’t seem to be happy about it.
If your future mother-in-law does not allow you to enter the kitchen or interferes whenever you cook, it is a clear sign that she might not like you doing the cooking. She believes she is the best cook for her son, and that you just won't be able to cook up his favourite dish the way she does it for him. Weird, we know, but true!
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She would also gossip about the things you do not do properly at family get-togethers. She might spice up these gossips to make everyone believe her. She can go to any lengths in spreading dislike for you among the other family members.
Some future mothers-in-law just cannot bear the feeling of her son loving some other girl, and might go to an extent of spying your past relationships, just to break yours with her son. She might also spy on your daily activities and get you two fighting over small things, during your courtship.
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If all these signs prove to you that your future mom-in-law does not like you, discuss about it with your partner and decide to fix your relationship with her, for a happy married life.
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